LEAVE IT BE! THIS WAR IS OVER WITH!

I've been researching the Vietnam War for an American History project, and all the info I find has something to do with bitter old Vietnam veterans, and personally I'm pretty sick of it! I don't mean to have disrespect for my elders, and I suppose maybe I don't understand the terror of this war because I didn't live through it. However, I find it very hard to comprehend how people could actually hold onto this hurt for so long without letting it go. As far as I'm concerned, the Vietnam War is over with.