Cherished

I think that is one of the best responses to give. I too am proud.
Proud of you and all the men who were there. All those who
survived and all of those who didn't. As for remembering, that
is the way to honor and (like you said) cherish the memories of
all that was given. Whether the war was right or wrong, it 
already happened. Now is the time to remember and not let everything
that was lost (lives, hearts, youth, etc...)be lost for nothing.
I was in the Air Force myself, I'm 25, and very proud of my
country and of all the Vets. It's a shame that young people like
me, those who were small children when this happened, can 
understand, empathize and be proud of all Vets. We do not judge
and cast aside those who had the courage and pride to stand up
and fight for their country. Yes, war is bad, however, if it 
weren't for our military, what kind of country do you think we'd 
be? Surely not the kind for free speech. Isn't it weird that 
a younger generation seems to have the right values? Those who
turned their backs and treated Vets as low lifes,should be 
ashamed, but by the things they've done and the ignorance 
they've shown, we know THAT's not going to happen.
 Thank you and Welcome Home to all of you. Men like you are 
what makes me proud to be an American.